If You Are a Man – by Abidemi Adebola “Poetry is nearer to vital truth than history”  Plato The real man smiles in trouble, gathers strength from distress and grows brave by reflection If you are a manYou have not been brokenYou have not failedYou have not been defeated You have not been rejectedand you […]

How to Recognize Stonewalling  Stonewalling–  first, they shut you out…now they are not talking… Stonewalling Being in a situation where you are stonewalled is difficult. Extremely so. You are left doing mathematical analysis and computations, theorizing and second guessing. You spend so much time thinking wondering what could be wrong without any meaningful feedback from

First Impressions – how much does it matter “You never get a second chance to make a first impression First impression is an incomplete impression Now that you are here, let’s talk first impressions. If you think about this deep enough you will realize that our inquisitive minds is always on the look out to judge

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Lets Talk Catch 22 – learn 5 tips to manage the situation 5 tips to help you reach for that hatch and see beyond the winless situation I am sharing 5 tips to help overcome the Catch-22 situation The expression Catch-22 comes from the name of a satirical novel written in the 1960s by Joseph Heller- arguably

26 Phone call Etiquette Tips – You should know these “A smile can “Translate” through the phone causing your voice to sound friendly and warm” Phone Etiquette 101 For most of my mentees and clients, one of the first lessons I pass to them is the concept that energy flows from place of high to the

Business in Nigeria – Entrepreneurship or Opportunism? “The pursuit of wealth is not a bad thing in itself because without food and comforts which wealth provides life will be penurious and drab. But always remember that any wealth accumulated on a selfish basis, at the expense of others or at the expense of the State,

Imposter Syndrome – the Types & how to navigate “Its not what you are that holds you back, its what you think you are”  Imposter syndrome sounds like another of those words brandished about as though it were an illness. Just so you know, it’s been around for a while and was first brought to

Dealing with a broken heart? – How to move on! “Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake and help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.“Mandy Hale Don’t cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won’t let you see the stars. This article was written and

We are Called – By Abidemi Adebola “We are called to change the world” Life is a spiritual journey not in the sense of Religion but in the sense of history, purpose and education. Every man and woman is a spiritual being, the world itself is a spiritual force. In any case the world could

Gaslighting? – No you are not Crazy! “Gaslighting is a type of emotional abuse. Nothing more”  Gaslighting is a deliberate way of lying, aiming to confuse the victim or destroy others trust over him, in order to get something out of it. Just like Ghosting, gaslighting is an undercover form of Emotional Abuse. It’s a

Finding your Purpose – this could be a big deal “We all have the ability to make a narrative out of our own lives”  Let’s explore the true meaning of your purpose in life Are you struggling to discover your purpose? What does it even mean? Questions, more questions! Are you busy living your life?

Go to the Ants – there is a lesson or two to learn “It is not enough to be busy, so are the Ants” The question is; “What are you busy about?”  Henry David Thoreau Go to the ant thou sluggard. Consider its ways and be wise. Proverbs 6:6 At first thought, some people may

Ditch your Smartphones Now – You are addicted already “Nomophobia is Phone Addiction and you are probably an addict”  You can’t stop the beeps and messages from coming in torrents, but you can control how you react to it Not until recently, the word Nomophobia- the fear of being without your cell phone, was not

Come let’s do Ponzi! – If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. “Don’t fall victim of your own greed, stay away from Ponzi schemes.”  The scheme got its name from an Italian immigrant named Charles Ponzi, a fraudster who duped thousands of investors in 1919 Yes! You read that right! Come let’s

The “LinkedIn” to your next job – Sure fire steps to help you cross the divide into your next opportunity “Its about time to take the bold move, start by crossing the LinkedIn bridge”  Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it At some point in our careers we are

A Generation that serves two Masters -by Adewole Lateef “Omo ti a o ko, ni yio gbele ti a ko ta” This post is authored by my very good friend Adeole Lateef This Thursday 11th of March, 2021, was the World Kidney Day. This year’s theme is: “Living Well with Kidney Disease”. I watched several

To my Mama – Short Poem by Jolade “There is nothing as powerful as mother’s love, and nothing as healing as a child’s soul”  By Jolade Come a little closer mum Have I told you? You are one of a kind The gentleness and kindness of your heart Yes, that you so generously share The

To Partner or Not? – business mistakes to avoid “The only strategy that is guaranteed to fail is not taking risk”  Mark Zuckerberg By Jolade Have you ever thought about starting up a business with someone or a group of people? It has been proven over time that great businesses are built on effective partnerships

You have been Ghosted? – How to deal? “Ghosting is a type of emotional abuse. Nothing more”  One minute you are having the best time of your life and the next minute, you are wondering what hit you! You have been in a relationship for a couple of months and it has been amazing all