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Waste of Sin – (DID)

Waste of Sin (Recap) – understanding Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) “The condition Explained” Although the Waste of Sin was rested a few weeks ago, the lessons will not be complete unless we understand the nature of the mental illness depicted in the story. Julia suffered a peculiar mental disorder called

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Quotable Quotes to Inspire you every day.

Quotable Quotes – to Inspire you every day. – “Everything you want is on the other side of fear” O ver a couple of years now, I have collected an amazing amount of everyday quote gleaned from almost everywhere. Many of the quotes come from the books I read, from

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Narcissist! -Dead end? How to handle

Narcissist? Deadend? – how to handle these sort of people ― People with NPD often don’t see a problem — at least not with themselves. As a result, it’s unlikely they’ll ever seek professional counseling.  Now that you have read the first piece on identifying a narcissist, it is just

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Signs your are a narcissist-Self Check

Signs you are a narcissist -Self Check “If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, its probably a duck” Why do I get the feeling that you have chosen to read this post with the hope that you would not check any of the boxes? What If

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Tragedy of Commons

Tragedy of Commons -Are we headed to waterloo? “Work in Progress” “This is work in Progress”   Will be published shortly Related Posts Share on facebook Facebook Share on twitter Twitter Share on linkedin LinkedIn

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Dare to be different

Dare to be different -Why it’s okay to break the mold “Criticism is something you can easily avoid by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.” ~Aristotle {Author is unknown. I stumbled on this inspiring piece over a decade ago and had it sent to my email for occasional read

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Diamonds or Stones?

Diamonds or Stones – By Jolade “A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg, even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.” Bernard Meltzer I spoke to an old friend over the telephone a few days back and we spoke about a number of

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RAPE = HATE. SAVE THE WORLD FROM ITSELF PART IV

RAPE = HATE. SAVE THE WORLD FROM ITSELF PART IV – By Deji Sowunmi “Blaming her meant that she was at fault, that she must have done something for this to happen to her. And so, it could never happen to their innocent, sweet, obedient daughters.”Mina Rehman – Author ‘Women

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Waste of Sin – Final Episode

Waste of Sin – Final Episode The End If you missed Episode 7, please catch up here The Grand Finale Danny could not sit still as the cab sped over the black and bumpy tarmac so fast that the passing greenery became a hazy blur. The car was an old

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Why we Struggle with Success

Why we Struggle with Success “Every successful person has overcome hard times. Don’t be afraid of your struggle, work past it.” I learnt a great lesson from my last place of employment and it is a lesson I would love to take beyond the moment of deciding to move on

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Waste of Sin – Episode 7

Waste of Sin -the best secrets are the most twisted Episode 7 -The losing Bet Please catch up on Episode 6 here The Losing bet Stephanie squinted her eyes in the pitch dark, her brain felt like an extinguished fire. Once it burnt bright and she knew of happiness and

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Waste of Sin – Episode 6

Waste of Sin – the best secrets are the most twisted Episode 6 -The Devil you know Catch up on episode 5 “Flipped” here Danny can be the most adorable husband when he is at his very best moment. From the outside theirs was a perfect marriage, yet Julia left

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The Workplace Bully – Part II

The Workplace Bully (Part II) – By Adebisi Blaq D ear reader, you probably wondered why some people are bullies. You also probably wondered what happened eventually to Bibi and me. In this part 2 of The Workplace Bully I will explain how you can turn into a bully and

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Waste of Sin – Episode 5

Waste of Sin -the best secrets are the most twisted Episode 5 -Flipped Please catch up on episode 4 – “The Sinker” here That first morning at the fancy hotel at the resort, Julia woke up with a start. Her head felt foggy as waves of dizziness hit her, the

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The Workplace Bully

The Workplace Bully – By Adebisi Blaq “One’s dignity may be assaulted, vandalized and cruelly mocked, but it can never be taken away unless it is surrendered” Michael J Fox. H ave you ever worked with a bully? If you haven’t, then Bibi’s story paints a good picture. Bibi’s boss

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Waste of Sin – Episode 4

Waste of Sin -the best secrets are the most twisted Episode 4 -The Sinker You can catch up on episode 3 – “The line” here ********* The Sinker When Julia woke up she could barely see a thing. The lack of light that had bothered her so much where she

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Lessons from my Apple Tree

Lessons from my Apple Tree – By Dupe Bobadoye “Never say you have failed until you have reached your last attempt, and never say its your last” Keep pushing- ‘tis wiser than sitting asideNever never say failAnd dreaming and sighing and waiting the tideNever never say failIn life’s earnest battle

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Waste of Sin – Episode 3

Waste of Sin – the best secrets are the most twisted Episode 3 –  The Line You can catch up on Episode 2 – “The hook” here The Line Danny had the faintest idea what he’d find at home. But the last he remembered was Julia’s voice over the mobile

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The “Extra” on the Ordinary

The “Extra” on the Ordinary – The most pathetic person in the world is some one who has sight but no vision. “If I paint a wild horse, you might not see the horse… but surely you will see the wildness!”Pablo Picasso I always wanted to put my thoughts down

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Waste of Sin – Episode 2

Waste Of Sin – the best secrets are the most twisted Episode 2 ― The hook Start here with the first episode The Hook Danny’s skin was suddenly drained of blood and his eyes rolled up into his eyelids as he clocked out into another fainting spell. His head sinking into

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Waste of Sin

Waste of Sin – The best secrets are the most twisted. “A new mystery novel is berth” Danny’s first mistake was not turning back when he noticed a few cars reversing in a frenzied haste in the opposite direction. He was slightly distracted watching a funny skit on his mobile

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The Sleepwalker and the walk of shame.

The Sleepwalker and the walk of Shame “Any adult with a tendency to sleepwalk has the potential to experience an accident and can be at risk of real injury. I was just lucky” Me Have you met a sleepwalker? Perhaps you have personally experienced this sleep disorder known to specialists

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Lessons from the Stone Soup

Lessons from the Stone Soup -a candle loses nothing by lighting another candle “Love only grows by sharing. You can only have more for yourself by giving it away to others” Brian Tracy The story of Stone Soup is a popular and yet old European fable that probably has the

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The Mummified Maiden

The Mummified Maiden -her life was designed for death. “The story of the roughly 500-year mummified bodies discovered near the frozen summit of the volcano Llullaillaco in modern day Argentina, with the eldest dubbed “ The Llullaillaco Maiden” was famous for bringing to light these practices and the pains that

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RAPE = HATE. SAVE THE WORLD FROM ITSELF PART III

RAPE = HATE. SAVE THE WORLD FROM ITSELF PART III – By Deji Sowunmi “The truth of it is, the shame was not mine, and for all victims in similar situations, it is not ours. The shame is reserved for every creep who has ever touched us inappropriately. The shame

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My Cri De Cœur

My Cri De Cœur – By Jolade “Feel what you need to feel and then let go. Do not let it consume you” Dhiman Honey your soul is golden! Some mornings you wake up and it seem like the weight of the world is on your shoulder. You would rather

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RAPE = HATE. SAVE THE WORLD FROM ITSELF PART II

RAPE = HATE. SAVE THE WORLD FROM ITSELF PART II – By Deji Sowunmi “Your body belongs to you and you alone, and no one has any right to touch you without your consent. Consent is momentary, temporary, and only valid for the specific activity to which it is given.

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Leeches in Breeches

Leeches in my Breeches – By Dupe Bobadoye W hat are Breeches? Breeches according to the Oxford advanced dictionary is a short trouser fastened just below the knee, worn especially for horse riding or as a part of ceremonial dress. It is a soft piece of clothing, technically for comfort.

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Rape = Hate; Save the world from itself.

Rape = Hate – Save the World from itself “What is it about “NO means NO” that you all don’t understand?”  Hi there. This is the second part in 4-part series titled GEORGE FLOYD, VERA UWAILA OMOZUWA, SOCIETAL LIP SERVICE & LOVE– THE COMPLETE GUIDE TO SAVING HUMANITY FROM ITSELF.

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The Imperfection of Fatherhood

The Imperfection of Fatherhood – By Jolade “The guys who fear becoming fathers don’t understand that fathering is not something perfect men do, but something that perfects the man. The end product of child raising is not the child but the parent.” Frank Pittman Some days back I was reflecting

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The Woman of my Tribe

The Woman of my Tribe – By Jolade H ave you met a woman from my tribe? She is that one who has guts to go for what she wants and gets it. This particular woman has no place for mediocrity and refuses to wear a label. She has a

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Storm in a Teacup

Storm in a teacup – The journey to self-recovery is not a choice, but recovery is. “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them” Joubert Botha My name is Michael, I am 28, and this is the second chapter of my

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Keeping Sane – The Covid-19 Realities

Identity Theft, by the Owner! – Radiate your beauty. Show your value. “Unless we base our sense of identity upon the truth of who we are, it is impossible to attain true happiness” Brenda Shoshanna.  I am a man. That is the first thing. Or I could be a woman.

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Identity Theft, by the Owner!

Identity Theft, by the Owner! – Radiate your beauty. Show your value. “Unless we base our sense of identity upon the truth of who we are, it is impossible to attain true happiness” Brenda Shoshanna.  I am a man. That is the first thing. Or I could be a woman.

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The Deaf Listener

The Deaf Listener – We have two ears and one mouth and we should use them proportionally. “Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply” Stephen R. Covey It is often said that we hear with our ears but we listen

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The Curious Case of broken Jaw II

The Curious Case of Broken Jaw II -a gripping true life story that taught me valuable lessons. “4 out of 5 motorcycle accidents end in injury or death” The night before, I had slept an angry and displeased man. And to make matters even worse, I was awoken in the

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The Curious Case of broken Jaw

The Curious Case of Broken Jaw -a gripping true life story that taught me valuable lessons. “4 out of 5 motorcycle accidents end in injury or death” From the corner of my eyes, I saw the motorcycle flip in one quick instant high up in the air and with a

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Low Hanging Fruits

Low Hanging Fruits -how entrepreneurs can capture a niche market using piggybacking techniques. “Build something 100 people love, not something 1 million people kind of like.” – Brian Chesky, cofounder of Airbnb This is a follow up to an earlier post titled “The Missing Piece” which is the first in

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Retail Location is Gold?

Retail Location is Gold? – Can the Retail Cluster Strategy for fuel stations provide competitive advantage in Nigeria? “It’s not so much about where we’re at, but where we want to go from where we’re at.” ― Craig D. Lounsbrough Using location as a competitive advantage in business is not

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