
Cheers to 2025
Every New Year holds promise, as though it is any different from the turn of
“Love is not enough. It must be the foundation, the corner stone – but not the complete structure. It is much too pliable, too yielding”
Is love really enough?
No matter how hard you try to justify “love” as the reason why your relationship will outlive that of your “exes”, it will always fall short. Equally as important as our famed “love” is respect, trust, companionship, security and responsibility. The list is quite exhaustive.
In the days when spouses were selected by families of both couples, love was only nurtured after the man had earned the respect, trust and confidence of his spouse. Young maidens are advised to marry a man that loved them desperately even if they didn’t feel the same measure of love for him. This advice was always given by her mother!
Truly, in any relationship, the partners do not love equally. One partner will always love more. How then can love be enough?
“I love you” is never enough! It may be a starting point, but there is a long road ahead and that road is laced with turns and twist that requires much more resilience than just love can muster.
Don’t get blinded by the sweet words and the promises of heaven and earth, love is just not enough to build a successful relationship let alone a long lasting marriage and family.
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Cheers.

Every New Year holds promise, as though it is any different from the turn of

In Part One, we established something that the available evidence handles quite comfortably: the female is not the weaker version

Her name was Nkechi. She was thirty-one years old, and she was dying — at least, that is what the doctors privately believed.

It was the spring of 1900. A group of Greek sponge divers, blown off course by a fierce Mediterranean storm, dropped anchor near the small island of Antikythera — a barren, wind-battered speck of land sitting between Crete and the Greek mainland. They were looking for shelter. What they found instead would take another century for the world to begin to understand.

In 1927, a Peruvian archaeologist named Toribio Mejia Xesspe was hiking through the desert plateau south of Lima when he noticed something odd about the ground. Shallow lines. Trenches, really — no deeper than 10 to 30 centimetres — scraped into the reddish-brown surface of the earth to reveal the pale yellow-grey subsoil beneath. They ran in straight lines for hundreds of metres. He noted them, filed a report, and moved on. They were curious. They were not yet miraculous.

Let me be honest with you right from the jump. This piece is personal. It is not a theoretical
think-piece written from the safe distance of academia. I co-founded a clean-tech electric vehicle company from scratch—the kind that starts with a big idea, a small team, an even smaller budget, and an almost embarrassing amount of optimism. So when I talk about the greed for growth and what it costs you, I am not talking from a podium. I am talking from the trenches.
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7 thoughts on “February Special III – He said/she said”
Love is never, can never, will never be enough. Saying, “I love you” is like buying JAMB form ….that is not enough to call you a graduate. Wetin dey after 6 pass 7
Love is enough.
However, there is a but.
The ‘but’ is it has to be equal and unfortunately it is almost impossible
For love not to be expensive or been about gifts both parties must believe in that ideology.
So Love is never enough because we are humans who are insatiable, selfish and sometimes greedy
Speaking from experience, LOVE can never be enough even if it’s mutual. Get Wisdom and you enjoy the relationship all the way.
Love… I don’t really understand! Love will never be enough…… Because Love is selfish
Very selfish… I agree. Everyone has an interest to protect.
Love will be enough, very enough if we’ll defined, love is tolerance, perseverance, patience, truth, kindness,, care, prayer intersesory, sacrificend every good way to help a partner live nd be happy
The topic of discussion should rather BE’IS I LOVE yoU ENOUGH’that statement means nothing until u start acting d characteristics of love….. My take on time Akin
This is what I take away, “Logic belongs to mathematics and not love”… deep!